When i was small my parents always used to tell me “Never behave with others in a way u dont expect others to behave with u”.
I modified the above statement as “Always behave with others the way, u will expect if u are in their position” and till now believed that this modification is correct. If we follow this then there will be no problem in any relationship.
But i have realized now that the modification which i have done will work only if two persons involved have same thinking. If two persons have different thinking then obviously the expectations will be different. So if u behave in the way u expect and other person’s expectations are different then surely there will be problems.
So either one should behave the way other person will expect but that is always not possible…u can never know a person completely,u can never be 100% sure what other person will expect at that moment. So problems will always be there..have to accept that.
Now when i realized that the thing i used to follow till now is not correct i should follow only what my parents told me…no mdification. 
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hi….thanx a lot 4 changing urself….world is not dat gud mam…so better change urself according 2 situations…
If I may, what provokes this thought ?
@shubhchintak,devansh mittal : yeah i will keep learning and keep changing just hope that the change is for good
@mythalez: thank u
@kritika: things that i have learnt over past two and a half years provoked this thought
Good !!
What we don’t expect is generally common in us rather than what we expect ..
and yeah I agree with shubhchintak, keep learning and keep improving ..
eh .. progressed from blog reading to blog writing … good … welcome welcome
“So problems will always be there..have to accept that.”
Everybody realizes it sooner or later !! the sooner the better
and ofcourse Welcome welcome !!
@skp: thanks ..
yeah sooner the better